Sorry if this is a derail, but: of course opposite-sex friendships and same-sex friendships are different

Sorry if this is a derail, but: of course opposite-sex friendships and same-sex friendships are different I bet you don’t “make a point” of meeting your female friends’ boyfriends and talking about these boys “in a positive way” in order to make it “clear to everyone” that you’re not interested in sex with your chums