You have three options: (1) leave now; (2) give it some time; (3) stay no matter what

You have three options: (1) leave now; (2) give it some time; (3) stay no matter what Your spouse needs to work alone on his/her own changes, so you need to move deliberately away from your relationship, whether that means separation or divorce Is there an obvious shift toward honesty, or are there still cover-ups